Fixing A Broken Heart

Feeling hopeless, useless, angry, disbelief, weak and abandoned. Describe just a few of the rotten hollow feelings of having a broken heart. When you invest your greatest commodity of giving your unconditional love to someone, it feels like you have split your heart in two and you are watching it breath and feel and move about.

You know what I mean because to truly have a broken heart you granted yourself to genuinely love someone.

Do you acknowledge any of these?

Leaving the radio off because all song makes you cry Loss of appetite Binge eating for console. Calling your ex several times a day. Text messaging and emailing constantly. (Text Message Terrorism). Constantly watching your email and voice mail to see if he/she called. Not going out because you are scared to miss a call. Thinking non-stop about why they in fact left you. Feeling massively lonely. Feeling presses to spy on them. Endlessly practicing what you should have said. Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump them.

Yeah I figured you might, I’m willing to bet we all have did most or all of the above at least once in our lives, nothing wrong with doing them either as long as you learn from your mistakes. Healing a broken heart does not happen because of someone or something else. The cure comes from within!

No matter what anyone else does for you will not make anything better until you give the go signal. Being at your lowest point and reading this in all probability seems like rubbish to you but it is true; you granted yourself to love and yes you can allow your broken heart to heal as soon as you understand you have the power and no one else does.

To allow your heart to heal you must allow a relationship to break. Your lover, wife, husband, girlfriend, boyfriend has said they are done; you guys are over, and you know what, that is fine, I’m not saying it is right in your heart but I am saying it is alright, you are breathing and you will continue too.

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